A whole new kind of problem... (MAJOR UPDATE AT BOTTOM 02/02

[gammamanuk]

This is going to be a weird one, but aren't all of my posts..

Since i split up with my girlfriend for like the -4th time in 8 months i decided to call it a day all together, but finding out she was pregnant with my child made me feel as if i had my foot stuck in the door so to say.

This has made me:

Want to fuck her off completely, get rid of the baby and never see her again

and

Me being too soft or just not having it in me to agree with an abortion, but stay friends with her and do what i can to support the baby.

Instead its like this, she went away the Friday after we split up, she got a MSN account on her fathers computer, he lives some 100 miles away like my father does, anyway she got on MSN, and this strange moron that i completely hate got the news we had split up, and like last time we split up, he tried to work his way into her knickers, she fucking lied to me told me she blocked and deleted him, so they both lost control of their MSN accounts, that was problem 1 solved.

Problem 2 is now after telling him to pack the fuck in ringing her, texting her and what not, he was now doing it again, so after 3 stressful and frustrating days i seem to have put a stop to it.

She then came back on Sunday and for some odd fucking reason i went and saw her to see how she was, i just felt really relieved to see her and now im starting to think ive got some sort of problem?

One minute i hate her, and i couldn't care less about her, but because shes got my kid inside her i don't want her with any dodgy lads let alone screwing other lads with my baby in her, ive got more respect than that.

The easiest way out would be to stay away from her, tell her to get rid of the baby and take it as another bad chapter in my life with a mistake to the list to learn from.

Instead im feeling bad about getting rid of it, chasing her around, checking up on her, trying to keep this prick away from her because if i don't go round there a couple of times in the day she will go off somewhere with her idiot mates and meet more pricks, kind of get pissed off with threatening people after a while and its not my scene im near on 20 years old i don't get a kick out of it like i probably used to when i was 16/17.

Im now at the stage where im really worried, its affecting my sleep, my eating habits, it affects me at work, ill be stood their scanning or counting stock and ill just go into a daydream thinking about her for a few minutes, then come back down to earth again.

I got so desperate to talk to someone yesterday, i just constantly feel the need to let things out, i ended up telling some bloke from iraq who couldn't speak much english but just kept saying ' you english are all the same, all you want is money and to spend it and to live life to the full ' ??

I think its worse because im working nights, the last 2 nights ive driven to work crying.

I really don't know what to do, im thinking of going to see someone to talk to them but i don't know who.

Someone i know on MSN ive spoken to is good with this sort of thing, and he thinks im suffering from ' obsessive compulsive disorder ' which is a kind of depression, caused by feeling insecure and unwanted, probably due to the fact i don't have many friends and ive always had this problem from like the age of 16 where i feel the need to have someone to talk to or listen to, this is why i post so many of my personal problems up on the net, id melt if i had to be in public with any of you as its so petty and embarrasing, but it makes me feel better, like it did yesterday i was happy and singing after talking the the iraqi fella.

What to do, what to do

[Mr.Everready]

[zaknafien]

[WR450_geezer]

Not even gonna bother reading this shit.
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[BanditBitch]

Gamma ......

FFS wake up and get with the program.

Your girlfriend is 16 with a baby and another one on the way by a different father. You have stated that she will sleep with other guys, unless you intervene. What kind of a girl is this?? This alone should be enough to jolt some sense into you.... never mind all the other stuff you have told us about.

and stop blaming the other guys for sniffing round.... its her thats at fault, she is encouraging them, get it into your skull.

I dont know what to say to you anymore. Maybe professional counselling or something would help. There must be somebody who can help you sort your head and this sorry mess out. Go and ask your GP.

As for you having OCD... unlikely.

[Rookie]

You haven't got obsessive compulsive disorder; that's a condition whereby you obey every strange thought that comes into your head. Everyone has it, to some degree. Watch 'As Good As It Gets', that's OCD.

If anything you're manic depressive, you just need to change your routine regarding this girl entirely. You know it's not going to work, so don't try to make it work.

[LustyLew]

From your previous posts it sounds like you dont have much going for you there at the moment. No job, or a crap one you hated. A GF who is a slut but you are too much of a pussy to stand up to her.

My suggestion is this:

Tell her to fuck of and abort the brat, you dont need the hassle, and she certainly doesnt deserve the priviledge of reproduction!

Then, get your car on the road.
Pack your bags.

GET THE HELL AWAY!

Sounds to me like someone needs a fresh start. Get out of there man! Move to the other side of the country. Change your MSN, change your mobile number. Make sure there's no way for her to get hold of you.

Then I suggest you find yourself a job that will keep you in housing and fed, and work your ass off. Get a career and get your life back on track.

I think it's about time you looked after number 1, not 2 or 3!
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[msgander]

If in your shoes, I'd let the idiot get with her and leave him with the problems................walk away, she sounds bad news, totally disrespectful.......................let her get on with it and move on with your life however painful it is......
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[ancientd]

Get out of her life and just pay the maintenance if she can prove you're the father. If you're not with her is it any of your business who she's with. As has been said, she sounds like bad news.
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[Visitor Q]

Take her to see the view from the top of a large flight of stairs.

Kids these days fall very easily.

Hell, maybe it will get rid of two drains and not just the one

Seriously though, shut the fuck up kiddo.
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[Reevo8]

Next time you think you need to see this girl again have a wank! Thats what porn was made for, to stop you from feeling the need to find someone to fuck which in your case was easy to find as you know a girl with your baby.

Or as the 40 year old virgin would say "No ass is worth thinking that much about, I always say"


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[ajacobs]

gammamanuk is TGE125NSR, an annoying prick who was banned years ago, hes a skinny ginger boy with nothing else to do. He signs up with other usernames for attention, if you dont believe me check his msn addy in his profile

[nrml76]

You sound like someone who is capable of digging yourself out of the mess you are in at the moment; but remember you can't dig others out as well. If I were in your shoes, I would consider LH-ER5's advice very seriously. Be honest with yourself. If you dont make a clean and complete break, you are just going to remain in the same mess for the rest of your life. Good luck with whatever you decide.

[bazza]

It's a shame it's illegal to scoop you and your slag off the streets as involuntary organ donors.

At least that way, you'd both contribute to society.
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[nick.h]

[Irezumi aka Reuben]

Havent read all of this, however standing near the facinity of one of these could possibly be a good idea.
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[Steve H]

Mutual Castration - Honestly it's the way forward for most troubled couples in your exact position.

I'm sure in the Primary School syllabus (which I'm positive you're familiar with) there was a Peter and Jane book dedicated to this subject - I believe it was released prior to 'Peter and Jane get potty trained'.

Anyway 'Peter and Jane consent to Mutual Castration' contained a poem that most students reading and writing at 6 year old level committed to memory...

Peter sold tic tacs they called him a dealer,
He loved his Lacoste, Carbrini and Fila.
Peter said Jane was always moody,
She called him a cock and ripped his Nike Hoody.

Jane said Peter was her only Lover,
Despite having 4 kids and one in the oven.
In the end they agreed for the good of the nation
That the only way forward was mutual castration.

Go on, you know you wanna.
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[WildGoose]

not really been following your saga too closely, and im sure you dont need another person taking the piss

for god sake abort the pregnancy, and push very hard to do so, you may not agree with it, but you will get over it

and you will get over it a hell of a lot better than trying to get over the fact youve fucked up your life for the next 18 years and also have to pay financially for that fact

she cant cope with 1 kid but that isnt your problem, why the fuck would you even consider letting her attempt to fuck up another, especially one that could be yours

you know what you need to do, and you know youve made a fuck up, so just bite the bullet and get it sorted, you dont want a kid with this person



failing that or even suceeding that, time for a career change

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these guys can help you out, and no, not joking..
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[ajacobs]

why do people reply to this dribble?

[Hex]

[freckles]

[Stevie B]

No offence Gamma but it seems you just basically ignore every reply except the ones who have some sort of praise for you in them.
But in actual fact alot of the ones you probably don't even read as because you think there just piss taking, are the ones i would agree with.
Get rid of this stupid bitch who is dragging you down with her and sort your life out. You haven't got OCD, thats a completely different story, but you've still got a chance to do something with your life. Get as far away as possible from her so you CAN'T see her even if you wanted and wait for the pain and sadness to subside. Time is the best healer; it's a cliche but for a good reason!

Sort your head out and see what a mess she is!

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[Parmo Paul]